the fact that he qacts like a dick eveyr now and again in his personal life, somehow outweighs all the good he's done.
The fact that he's CONSISTENTLY behaved like a dick since the start of BND DOES outweigh it, yes, because thanks to the retcon, he's literally a completely different character now, with an all-new history that WE STILL KNOW NOTHING ABOUT.
I guess I allow a man who faces symbiotes, shape changing monsters, mob leaders, aliens, and now the regime of the man who has systimatically tried to ruin his life, a little bit of leeway in his personal life.
And I guess I expect that a man who has already overcome obstacles that are much more mentally and morally challenging than his current predicaments to respond with at least as much intelligence and decency as he used to show back then, except that he's now behaving more stupidly and less admirably than he's ever done.
I find absolutely nothing in this new version of Peter with which I can sympathize or identify. I don't just hate what Marvel has done to him; I hate him AS A PERSON now.