Considering that your bizarre accusation is calling every couple who has ever gotten drunk past the point of memory and had a sexual encounter both a rapist and a rape victim, I think I have every right to point out that is completely different in every aspect than every other of the crime. You are making monsters and victims out of people who are neither. I do not know what your experiences with rape are but I do know think that you have an inaccurate view of the situation you are describing.