frankly, a lot of commentators here seem to think this is some whole new thing that the ASM writers invented
It doesn't help that the "brain trust" played Peter and Michelle's mutual date rape by intoxication as COMEDY ...
... Or that Michelle is throwing her pussy at Peter in spite of the "brain trust" EXPLICITLY STATING in interviews that she does not like or respect him in any way whatsoever, thereby reducing her to a plot-device vagina on legs, who is having sex with Peter FOR NO REASON AT ALL other than TYPICAL PARKER LUCK HYUK HYUK HYUK ...
... Or that Michelle is a hot-tempered, hard-drinking, ball-busting hell-on-wheels bitch who just needs a good stiff one to set her straight, which not only makes her a misogynist stereotype of "strong women," but also makes her a RACIST stereotype of LATINAS.
It's not just that it's bad writing (which it is), but also that it's entitled white male wannabe-fratboy bullshit, of the variety that I got into superhero comics in the first place to get the hell AWAY FROM.
Depending upon how far back in history previous stories were told, I can occasionally give those writers a pass, if they were relatively progressive for their eras, but I'm sorry, at this point, when it requires nothing more than a mouse-click to start breaking down one's own backpack of preconceptions (see also: recent mod posts of pertinent links on this very comm), there's really no excuse for Marvel to be this clueless nowadays.
Saying that it's an old and oft-used trope is no excuse; in fact, it makes it even LESS excusable, because if you're a writer who actually spends any amount of time THINKING about your craft, then you should realize that Not Every Trope Deserves To Live, which is why you tend not to see as many squinty-eyed, buck-toothed Asian sidekicks to white heroes anymore.