That's fair. It always bothered me that Kaine beat Darkdevil with a two-by-four so hard he got a concussion. It was on the surface a hero-trying-to-capture-a-criminal fight, but Kaine was the closest thing to a father DD had, and DD was still a minor.
I guess some things need to be completely..not sure what word to use, righteous?..in order to be accepted. For instance, if Jan became DARK WASP and started sucking people's blood, it would be okay for Hank to hit her.