Lemme check: one saw his parents get shot down in front of him at age eight and grew up to become a crime fighter. The other saw her parents get shot in front of her at age eight and grew up to become a crime mafia fighter.
One has the reputation of not being a team player. The other has the reputation of not being a team player.
One is regularly rebuked for being too intense. The other is regularly rebuked for being too intense.
One rarely listens to what anyone else is saying. The other rarely listens to what anyone else is saying.
One goes through phases of attempting to push everyone away. The other refused to let anyone get close up until recently.