IIIIII don't THINK that's MJ. That hair looks black, not red, and it's too short. My guess is that it'll turn out to be either Betty Brant or Michele the drunkard over there. (I mean, her hair's a bit too long, too, but I suppose it could be rumpled or something - and she IS every bit as drunk as he is by the end.) I don't think this counts as a violation of the past twenty years. I mean, it's embarrassing no matter what - either he's hooked up with his ex-wife while falling-down drunk, or he hooked up with someone else THINKING she was his ex-wife - but really, a violation has to be something a little stronger, in my opinion. 'OMD', just to start with - THAT was and is a violation, even if it's a temporary one. Having Spidey unmask himself just beforehand - that was a violation. JJJ turning into a nutjob worse than he's ever been - that's certainly a violation. Having Peter get liquored up and embarrass himself is just another example of that old Parker luck. (At first what I thought was going on, before I saw the context, was that this was supposed to be a retcon of how the two of them MET - THAT got me outraged, I can tell you, but it died down pretty quickly once I learned the truth.)