I´m sorry you feel personally attacked by what I wrote, if that´s how it came across I apologise. I know nothing about you, so what I wrote was merely a reaction to your comment, not your person. I still don´t think repeating an internet gag that was maybe funny for 30 seconds proves any point you were trying to make though. I am also very sorry to learn that you have lost your parents. My point was however about violation and the effect it can have on a person long term. I have been professionally involved with traumatised children, I think I know what I´m talking about. And thanks for the personal shot back, btw.