What if my foot gets stepped on *every* day? What if I've just taught four other people how not to step on my foot, and now I'm tired? What if most people will deny for half an hour ever having stepped on my foot, or accuse *me* of being the one who doesn't know how to dance, and I have no way of knowing that you won't be one of those folks, and further no desire to deal with that half hour conversation?
good for everyone who risk's their heels being stood on.
Sure. Racism isn't over because poc don't explain enough.