I read that comment asking for clarification as asking what "narm" meant. I sort of thought that was a confusing use of the acronym Not Another Re-Make? ...Which took me typing it out to realize that's not even the right letters.
In any case, yeah, I'm still bothered by Brand New Day (Wait, I think I mean One More Day-- ugh this is getting progressively more tedious to correct myself) but in this particular case I think it does have a story reason. (Aunt May is psycho and blaming MJ for whatever happened.) It only really bothers me when there's a jab that is totally outside the realm of characterization like the writer and/or artist is going out of their way to tease fans of the old status rather than to tease the story itself. (Like how Marvel Adventures used to pointedly sometime make jokes about how the heroes would NEVER send Hulk into space one-way nor get into civil war infighting)