Re: I love Brian, but in all fairness...
Precisely because he knows what it means to be hurt by those we love, I don't see why his experinces as a child explain his deliberate hurtful behaviour towards Justin, a 17-year old boy who's head over heels in love with him. If not in the sense that he wants to hurt him: exactly what I dislike.
I have a really hard time to understand Justin
If you're referring to this scene (which is what I've been talking about all along), me too: in his place I would have told Brian exactly where to stick the Jambalaya.