harbors going with richard! lines for this 34 year old research scientist? he's a nerd on paper but a gregarious social butterfly in person, and an all-around walking contradiction. i'd love some family (his background's up in the air at the moment except for the fact that he was born in scotland and potentially moved to maine when his parents divorced as a teen, but that's all tentative), the big ex-girlfriend/fiancee (down to brainstorm details), fellow science geeks he texts at 3 am when he's had a eureka moment and wants to fanboy over zebrafish, drinking buds, a handful of general exes/fwb situations, anything while i get him set up