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Calliope ([info]spacelike) wrote in [info]marinanova,
@ 2015-09-07 10:47:00

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Entry tags::mingle, angelina burnett, calliope, charlotte charles, kitty pryde (aoa), loki laufeyson, neil dylandy, spike, tieria erde, wally west

[DAY 340] "DEAD BACK HOME" GROUP THERAPY MINGLE
[This group therapy session takes place in an appropriately-sized study room in the Education Center. There is one large oval table for everyone to sit at, and a smaller snack table off at the side.]

[The session is divided into two parts.]


PART ONE: Mourning Yourself
Discussion
— Did you harbor any regrets before your death? And if so, is there anything you can do for them with your newfound time?
— Do you know how you died? How did you learn? Did you arrive near-death, or did you hear about it from a friend? How do you feel about the particular details of it?
— Who or what killed you? Have you forgiven it or them? Why or why not?
— Is there anything you wish you could change? Why? Discuss.

Activities
— Write your own obituary or eulogy. Once you've read it out loud, you'll be invited to burn it with a bot-offered candle. (The bot will not hand over the candle.)
— Picture yourself attending your own funeral. When it's your turn to pay your respects to yourself, what would you say? What thoughts occur to you?
— Write a letter to at least one of your loved ones. What would you say about your death to them?

[After this, there is a break. Coffee and tea are provided, along with both savory and sweet snacks. You're still not allowed to leave, though.]

PART TWO: Moving Forward
Discussion
— What dreams and hobbies did you have before? Can you pursue them now?
— Discuss what your previous goals were. What are similar things you can do to achieve them here?
— What kinds of relationships have you made, or would kinds would you like to have?

Activities
— Write down your plans for your future. Partner up and discuss them in-depth to flesh them out better.
— Come up with a daily routine, emphasizing your interests. Refer to others to help you find relevant resources or activities.
— Draw yourself 5, 10, or 25 years from now. Share it with a partner or the group.

-
((OOC: You're also welcome to come up with any of your own activities/therapeutic discussion topics! Everything offered here is just a starting point.))



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[info]spacelike
2015-09-07 04:40 pm UTC (link)
[Despite her friendliness, Calliope is feeling very shy about being thrust into a closed room filled with people she doesn't know well or at all. It's even worse when the topic of the group makes itself clear; fortunately, partway through the first half, she starts to relax a lot more, and participates in discussions.]

"Did I know how I died"? Um. Yes. It's hard to describe to anyone who isn't a cherub... I just knew that I would. It did sort of help that my brother started crowing over my immanent death. It's hard to explain, otherwise...

[The interest in the second part is pretty genuine, even if still a little painful. She avoids drawing herself, but is definitely interested in writing up a routine. Once she has something formed, she starts looking around for people to discuss them with.]

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[info]kitty_has_claws
2015-09-12 03:26 am UTC (link)
[Kitty is looking Calliope over, but it's not the green thing. Well, it is the green thing, but not because she's green exactly. It's because she looks kind of like her brother and he and Kitty got into it once. Loud music might have been phased to death. Things happen.]

Knowing how you die isn't much fun.

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[info]spacelike
2015-09-13 12:26 am UTC (link)
It's... Not, no. But it was inevitable, and at least I had some time to prepare. And to say goodbye to my best friend.

[ Looking on the bright side. ]

[ She knows she's being stared at, but that's nothing new or special. She wriggles self-consciously and tries not to worry about it. It's very hard. Even feeling more comfortable in her own skin, she still knows she's weird. ]

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[info]madamredreaper
2015-09-07 06:50 pm UTC (link)
[Small room? People talking about death? How relatively normal for Angelina. The only unusual part is that they are talking about their own deaths.]

Do I know how I died...? I... I do, actually. I had a moment of clarity, and.. refused to kill my nephew, so my butler stabbed me with his death scyth..

[For the second part, Anne is just staring at a blank page with a pen in her hand. This was hard for someone who usually did whatever she wanted.]

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[info]kitty_has_claws
2015-09-12 03:27 am UTC (link)
Probably a bad sign when your butler has a death scythe in the first place. [Bad time to make jokes?]

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[info]madamredreaper
2015-09-14 12:58 am UTC (link)
[Not entirely. Anne smiles a little before her face falls again.] I had a grudge on the world.

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[info]chipswiththat
2015-09-08 05:46 pm UTC (link)
[ The wardens must have it in for him, scheduling him for two bleedingly obvious groups like this. He'll stay in his corner for as long as he's able, expression pissed off beyond belief and arms crossed non-participatory over his chest. Fuck all y'all. ]

You've got to be bloody kidding me...

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[info]stratos1
2015-09-11 09:45 am UTC (link)
That bad, huh?

[ Come one, that reaction does call for the question. Even if Neil's face is self-mocking enough to show that he knows the guy may verbally rip into him over it. That's all right. ]

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[info]chipswiththat
2015-09-11 07:11 pm UTC (link)
Are you kidding? I'm dead here too. I've been dead for a bloody century, what kind of trauma are they imagining this will have?

Wankers.

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[info]_tricky
2015-09-12 08:00 am UTC (link)
One hopes. [said a bit flatly, and not really directed at Spike. He's deeply troubled, though trying not to show it - he isn't dead back home. The old him is dead, not the him he is now - he shouldn't be dead - he cannot catch a moment alone to ask Ikol what this means, and in fact he cannot see him -

There is a lot of inner panic going on with Loki right now.]

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[info]chipswiththat
2015-09-12 06:51 pm UTC (link)
[ Oh, it's you. That guy he's still not sure how he feels about because it's a level of weirdness he's having trouble grasping. It throws him off, makes him undecided between snarking and ignoring. ]

Wish they had a better sense of humor, if this is their idea of a joke.

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[info]pushedback
2015-09-08 05:50 pm UTC (link)
[ It seems kind of unnecessary to put her in this group when she's already moved so incredibly far away from her death all on her own. Plenty of time has passed and Chuck is difficult to rattle by nature — still, there are some activities she can participate in. Things that still bother her, although not nearly as much as they were.

She sits quietly by herself for the time being, drawing herself and Ton and a gaggle of kids. Ten years from now? Five? Soon, right? The last hurdle to get over before she really has everything she wants and even if that doesn't come true, she has her prison family here.

Some people just aren't suited for therapy anymore. ]

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[info]stratos1
2015-09-11 09:47 am UTC (link)
[ Okay, but... he doesn't really resist too hard the question... ]

Do kids actually get born here?

[ And it's not asked in a skeptical way, or so as to make her feel bad or doubt herself. It's just a genuine question. ]

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[info]pushedback
2015-09-11 06:42 pm UTC (link)
[ It's a good question. One she can actually answer with as much certainty as anyone can have in this prison. ]

No. That's why we have these wristbands. [ She shows her own. It's blue. ] If you want to... you know, with someone, they do some kind of operation so you can't get pregnant. No kids in prison.

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[info]stratos1
2015-09-11 09:49 am UTC (link)
... what if I as never mad at the guy who killed me for that, but I haven't forgiven him for something else? How's that figure in this?

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[info]kitty_has_claws
2015-09-12 03:23 am UTC (link)
[Hey you.] Pretty sure as long as you say the right amount of things you get to leave whether you're any better off or not.

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[info]stratos1
2015-09-12 07:10 am UTC (link)
[ Neil blinks, a little, but his face only brightens up a bit. He did promise Ianto to keep the secret... ]

Hey. Is that how things work, here? What's the right amount of things?

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[info]kitty_has_claws
2015-09-12 03:30 am UTC (link)
[It's her party and she'll avoid crying if she wants to... Okay, not so much a party, but today is her birthday even if only two people know about it. But that isn't what the wardens want her to talk about. This is about death, not birth.]

Have you forgiven him? [Changing the wording to fit the person without thinking about it. She doesn't answer. Instead, she gets out her pack of cigarettes. It's going to be a long day.]

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[info]trial_by_veda
2015-09-12 08:24 am UTC (link)
[He really wasn't sure why he was here. He was okay with what had happened to him. And, in a way, he wasn't really dead back home anyway. Right? He could go back into a body any time he wanted.

Though, he wasn't sure... being so far away from home with Setsuna... if something happened to the Quan[T], he risked being lost. But he was okay with that risk. It came with the job.]

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[info]stratos1
2015-09-12 09:51 am UTC (link)
[ There Neil was, trying to figure out the thing about vampires...

... when he turned around and spotted Tieria looking kind of suspiciously around the room.

Wait. WHAT?

Neil excused himself, after a bit, and wandered over, as casually as he could manage. But he was maybe panicking a little.
]

Didn't expect to see you here.

[ That was casual. Right? RIGHT? ]

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[info]trial_by_veda
2015-09-12 10:31 am UTC (link)
[Damn it. Stupid therapy sessions. Stupid bots for making him go. Stupid prison. Stupid everything.

He watched Neil approach, then dropped his gaze and looked to the side when the other Meister spoke.]


I was hoping to be able to tell you in my own time.

[Like... when Neil had finally been able to settle a bit about his own situation. Tieria really hadn't wanted him to have to think about more deaths.

Not that he was dead... just... physically so.]


When I could explain things better.

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[info]fastonhisfeet
2015-09-12 09:32 am UTC (link)
[Wally really doesn't know why he's been assigned to this particular group. Sure, he had been told by his girlfriend that he died back home, but that wasn't suppose to take place for another five years and all he really knew about it were some vague details. And while it's true he has an understanding of what his life was like a few months before it happened and knows that there are some things he wanted to accomplish that he'll never get the chance to, it wasn't like those things bothered him.

Really, there was no reason for him to be here at all.

That's why he'll spend most of the session trying to find ways to entertain himself—such as making some paper airplanes, playing himself in intense games of tic-tac-toe, or even drawing what appears to be little lightning bolts over and over—with the paper he's given while he sits at the table since he had no plans of participating in the discussion or the activities. Though at one point he actually does begin to write a letter about what he'd tell his parents, but he only ends up tearing it up in frustration after a few sentences.
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Spoilers for FFXIV: Heavensward. Please do not put his character tag up.
[info]valiantsteed
2015-09-12 10:50 pm UTC (link)
Discussion
[He wasn't entirely sure what he was getting himself into. This was highly recommended to him based on his recent poor behavior. As soon as he realized what exactly was going on, his stomach dropped. This was a lot to confront, just days from it all happening. He speaks once when it seems appropriate, then growing quiet. It is very, very strange for him to be so quiet.]

"Do I know how I died?" Yes. Of course I did, I was there. T'wasn't as if my head were lopped off in my sleep! I took a gut shot when my shield broke. [That's not nearly the entire story, but being here makes him feel tired.]

Activities

[He looks irate with the click-pen he is handed. He looks distraught. He wants to write a letter for his family, truly but with these materials?]

How am I supposed to write with this? It hasn't a pointed tip, and there isn't even a bit of ink in sight!

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[info]spacelike
2015-09-13 12:22 am UTC (link)
[ Calliope feels immediate pity for him, though she's felt that for everyone here. This was a cruel but necessary therapy group, in her opinion. ]

[ So she sidles up to Haurchefant, moving carefully as to not seem confrontational, and clears her throat. ]


Excuse me- may I help you with that? [ She holds a clawed hand out for the pen, palm up and flat. ]

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[info]valiantsteed
2015-09-13 06:21 pm UTC (link)
[Before even looking up he lifts his arm to give her the pen. It isn't the green skin that startles him, that's plenty normal—

It's the distinct lack of nose and hair. He startles before he can temper his reaction, accidentally throwing the pen. Because of where they are, he immediately feels bad—

She must have died horribly.

He tries to reel himself back in before he speaks. He tries to play off the fact that he just threw the pen in the air behind him.]


Yes, please, that quill is clearly defective— Perhaps you can help me find a better one...! And some nicer paper. Why has this one got lines across it? Who would do that?

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