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Sam Winchester (tallerthanthou) wrote in marinanova,
@ 2013-09-16 17:49:00

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[Day 237] Relationship Issues Group Therapy mingle
[The relationships group therapy attendees will all get a message telling them to report to The Winery in Sector 2. Sadly for them the alcohol is locked away, but there is an assortment of food and non-alcoholic beverages along the bar for consumption. Many of the tables have been cleared out and the chairs rearranged into a circle with booths along the edges for more intimate therapeutic discussions.

And don't forget the party favors! The wardens have left some helpful games and activity ideas to get them started. There's a bowl full of folded slips of papers with various questions.]

How many people have you slept with? Do you regret any of them? Why?

How many relationships have you been in? Why do you think that is?

What was your longest relationship? Most serious? Shortest? Most casual?

Why did your last relationship end?

What do you look for in another person?

Are you happy?

Who is your ideal mate?

What was the biggest problem/complication in your previous or current relationship?

What do you need out of a relationship? Sexual experience?

How long have you been single between relationships? Why do you think it was so long/short?

What is the best way to break up with someone?

Do you believe in soul mates? Do you think you have or will meet yours?

Would you rather spend your life with one important person or several acquaintances? Why?

Are there any similarities between the people you've been with? If so, what are they?

Do you have trouble making choices? Give examples.

Do you think with your heart, your head, or your genitalia? Are you satisfied with this behavior?

Do you have trouble relating to people? If so, in what way?

[In addition to the questions there are cards with various prompts. One explains the game, I Never. Another suggests people pair off and roleplay they are in a relationship and then deal with various scenarios like what do to if one partner flirts with someone else or comes home late without calling.]

Who should do the dishes?

When is it appropriate to discuss getting blue bands/having sex?

When should you move in together if ever?

What do you do if you suspect the other is keeping secrets?

What do you say if your partner comes home with a haircut you don't like?

How do you respond if you find your partner crying?

How do you decide how to spend your time together?

Your partner's family doesn't like you. What do you do?

One of you is critically hurt. How does the other respond?

Your friends don't like the person you're with. What do you say to them? What do you say to your partner?

One of you wants sexual relations and the other does not. How do you balance your needs?

How do you communicate your desire for a particular sexual desire to your partner?

It is your partner's birthday. How do you prepare?

At a party your partner leaves you to socialize with others. How does this make you feel and how do you respond?

How do you show your affection?

(OOC: Mingle style. You are not limited to the questions, scenarios, or games listed above. Assume there are more! I recycled a lot of this from last time so if someone was in this group twice they can feel free to notice, but assume there are lots of questions and prompts, so they probably didn't see them all.)

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	lifelines 2013-09-26 03:59 pm UTC (link)
	Not many have. In my world, I'm one of a very small number. Perhaps it's better that way. [ she would never wish her life on anyone. ] (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	virgins 2013-09-27 05:56 am UTC (link)
	Maybe. There was lots of vampires in my world -- we're the only ones who live long times that I know of. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

lifelines
2013-09-28 12:15 am UTC (link)

Vampires aren't commonplace in my world. In fact, the last one I met wasn't exactly kind. She wanted to "keep" me for her court, but I had to turn her down. Her offer ran the risk of bleeding out.

[ meaning she'd been offered the position of royal canteen. afina had wanted to use her as a canteen for the entire vampire population. helen had understandably refused. ]

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	virgins 2013-09-28 03:44 am UTC (link)
	Oh. Yeah, I've heard a lot of the vampire royalty is like that. I mean, when my maker was king he wasn't, but that ain't true of a lot of 'em. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	lifelines 2013-09-28 11:49 am UTC (link)
	Especially not when they've been locked away for a thousand years. [ she's just going to casually not mention that she blew that queen up. ] It would be nice if we could all learn to co-exist. [ but that might be wishing for a lot with certain vampires. ] (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	virgins 2013-09-29 07:46 am UTC (link)
	We were tryin' that back home. Vamps came out of the coffin but it wasn't goin' too great. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	lifelines 2013-10-01 12:32 pm UTC (link)
	Sometimes it doesn't. Humans can be rather stubborn about their views on what can and cannot exist in their world. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	virgins 2013-10-02 05:36 am UTC (link)
	And there's always gonna be fear of those with power -- can't say I totally blame 'em (Reply to this) (Parent)

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