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Sam Winchester (tallerthanthou) wrote in marinanova,
@ 2013-09-16 17:49:00

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[Day 237] Relationship Issues Group Therapy mingle
[The relationships group therapy attendees will all get a message telling them to report to The Winery in Sector 2. Sadly for them the alcohol is locked away, but there is an assortment of food and non-alcoholic beverages along the bar for consumption. Many of the tables have been cleared out and the chairs rearranged into a circle with booths along the edges for more intimate therapeutic discussions.

And don't forget the party favors! The wardens have left some helpful games and activity ideas to get them started. There's a bowl full of folded slips of papers with various questions.]

How many people have you slept with? Do you regret any of them? Why?

How many relationships have you been in? Why do you think that is?

What was your longest relationship? Most serious? Shortest? Most casual?

Why did your last relationship end?

What do you look for in another person?

Are you happy?

Who is your ideal mate?

What was the biggest problem/complication in your previous or current relationship?

What do you need out of a relationship? Sexual experience?

How long have you been single between relationships? Why do you think it was so long/short?

What is the best way to break up with someone?

Do you believe in soul mates? Do you think you have or will meet yours?

Would you rather spend your life with one important person or several acquaintances? Why?

Are there any similarities between the people you've been with? If so, what are they?

Do you have trouble making choices? Give examples.

Do you think with your heart, your head, or your genitalia? Are you satisfied with this behavior?

Do you have trouble relating to people? If so, in what way?

[In addition to the questions there are cards with various prompts. One explains the game, I Never. Another suggests people pair off and roleplay they are in a relationship and then deal with various scenarios like what do to if one partner flirts with someone else or comes home late without calling.]

Who should do the dishes?

When is it appropriate to discuss getting blue bands/having sex?

When should you move in together if ever?

What do you do if you suspect the other is keeping secrets?

What do you say if your partner comes home with a haircut you don't like?

How do you respond if you find your partner crying?

How do you decide how to spend your time together?

Your partner's family doesn't like you. What do you do?

One of you is critically hurt. How does the other respond?

Your friends don't like the person you're with. What do you say to them? What do you say to your partner?

One of you wants sexual relations and the other does not. How do you balance your needs?

How do you communicate your desire for a particular sexual desire to your partner?

It is your partner's birthday. How do you prepare?

At a party your partner leaves you to socialize with others. How does this make you feel and how do you respond?

How do you show your affection?

(OOC: Mingle style. You are not limited to the questions, scenarios, or games listed above. Assume there are more! I recycled a lot of this from last time so if someone was in this group twice they can feel free to notice, but assume there are lots of questions and prompts, so they probably didn't see them all.)

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	tallerthanthou 2013-09-24 01:02 am UTC (link)
	Not a good question I take it? (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

notamasochist
2013-09-24 10:53 am UTC (link)

The only remaining member of either of our families is her 'brother'. Who is supposed to be her fiance, so I can't see how he wouldn't have issues. One of us is heading up the hunter's association. The other is in charge of maintaining order within the vampire's. Everyone would have issues with us. Friends. Co-workers. Subordinates. Enemies.

[He frowns--obviously thinking.]

I think it would be more difficult to determine who wouldn't try to prevent it back home.

I wonder what Cross would think...

He's the only one I think might be okay with it all. Even though he's the president right now of the hunter's association--he was Yuuki's adoptive father and my foster parent.

He thought it would be fun to raise a pureblood vampire who had been turned into a human and a hunter who had been turned into a vampire together to see what happened--like some sick project to prove they could co-exist.

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	tallerthanthou 2013-10-21 12:15 am UTC (link)
	Her...brother/fiance... [Throat clearing. This is all a lot of information. Where to even start?] Cross, the guy Tyki mangled in the old church? (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

notamasochist
2013-10-21 12:20 pm UTC (link)

[Yes, let's not talk about that fiance/brother thing.]

Headmaster. He was here for a time as well. Kaien Kurosu. Cross. Obsessed with taking and sharing pictures, long blond hair, glasses, acts like a complete idiot most of the time.

One of the deadliest hunters in the association next to me.

He adopted Yuuki at age five--after retiring from the association. He always knew who and what she was.

He brought me home as well when I was twelve after my family was killed.

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	tallerthanthou 2013-10-30 12:30 am UTC (link)
	[A nod of understanding. Well, some understanding. It's still complicated sounding. But the last part gets him.] I'm sorry. [He's lost family. Hell, he's lost pretty much everyone at one point or another. It didn't always stick as it turned out, but sometimes—most of the time—it does.] What happened? (Reply to this) (Parent)

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