Dear You:

Why don't you get over yourself?

I know it's not easy to quit. And I know that it's especially hard since noone seems to want to help you. But you know what? You're almost a grown woman. Take charge of your own life for once. Noone can help you if you refuse to help yourself.

I don't want to go back to the way we were. Right now, at this moment, I can safely say that I feel absolutely no love for you. I don't think I can ever really feel that way about you again. I have someone now, someone who makes me happy and treats me well. And I don't plan to give that up. I'm sorry, but that's the way it is.

It's come to the point where I can no longer believe in you when you promise me you'll quit. Prove me wrong. Do something about it. If you want help, I'll help you. But only if you truly seem to want to change.