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Hey guys! I'm super excited to join in on the fun here, but I definitely need a little bit of help and feedback! I'd like to bring in this dude right here, one Icarus Bardshawe ("but please just call me Car"), an older Helot that has the worst luck with Masters and can't seem to stay with one longer than a few months. He was sent to a halfway house at the age of twenty-two and he's been in and out for ages, he's gotten to that point in his life where he's just really given up on ever leaving. He's the Mommy of the particular house that he's in, a total mama bear that likes to fuss over the other younger Helots running around! He's honestly very sweet, a total softie, but life's given him some rough edges and a distinct air of "eh, fuck it" about most things in life.

I'd love any and all connections for him! And, if someone would be so kind, I would love help finding a face to fit for him! I was thinking Misha Collins or Hugh Dancy (Car will be 38-42!), but I'd love suggestions if anyone has any for me!