In Dol Amroth, where I was born, I know that women weren't supposed to let on that they liked it at all, or that they desired it. But it's different in Edoras, where I live now. For one thing...we don't have quiet bedrooms with thick walls where we can hide away. Everyone kind of sleeps on the floor in the Great Hall, and you just kind of look away. Granted, Éomer and I have a little alcove that's more private than the rest, but there aren't any doors or walls, just a curtain. So we all pretty much know what everyone else is doing, and privacy comes in just not paying attention. And I was horrified at first, but it's really not something to be ashamed of. We all have desires and there's nothing wrong with it. It feels good, and as long as both parties actively consent, it's a wonderful thing.