Well, crazy is more like it, because I was only pregnant three times.
Five years late is better than not at all. And knowing you, like I do, I bet you came to the rescue when she needed you most.
Well of course, but I will say setting up a routine as quickly as possible, especially after a trauma, is better than you would believe. But you do need to give her time to mourn. I wish we had a therapist, but I can only give you advice on what I have experienced.