How about this, it would sate you both I think: if something happens to me and Blank, Reeve goes to you and Shannon. If anything happens to you and your lot Reeve will go to Bryn. And that way if Kat doesn't want responsibility of him, she has someone else to go to, but if she does: Reeve goes to Bryn only if something happens to her and Rhysand.
Oh no, you're the only one that's like me. I'll need you to catch him. You won't see me in my altogether that would take too much energy I think. This is all theory of course, because I had a weird dream, and it unnerves me a little.