He did. But he covered it with a ruse. Something about what should happen to your son in case something happened to the both you... split responsibility between Brynhild and myself. Of course that is unacceptable for me. I would have gladly excepted sole responsibility but sharing would put a burden on me I cannot carry, especially not after Brynhild's betrayal to my brother. That would not go down with Shannon either. If I will raise another child, it will be with her. We did not even get to raise our first child together.
I found out quickly enough that he was only toying with me. After giving me a whole speech about how betrayal should not matter in the face of an innocent child, and I insisted he would need to make a choice, he told me that it could only be Brynhild because he could not betray his friend. It would have been very amusing if he had not used the one responsibility I take very seriously. Either he believes me dumb or uncaring.
Next time it might be best if you ask me every request the moment it comes to your mind so your man does not have the chance to ruin it.