I love you, too, and I know you do, and I know it's not the same, but I kind of get where you're coming from in as much as I can. It's probably the height of stupidity to say, but the sentiment is genuine: it's not fair. For a lot of reasons, most of which you already laid out right up there. You have no idea how much I wish your Mom and Dad would show up, but it's not even an eighth as much as you want them here.
I'm not at all and never really want to be a mind reader, but I'm sure he knows what he is to you and you are to him. And I know he loves you because you're family.