Ah should have clarified, slash cons. Wish I could afford the other, one day I'd like to make it to Comic con, but as it is I go to Bascon, Winchestercon, Escapade, & Writercon. It's always lovely whether it's at a con or when local slasher friends get together that you don't have to explain the whole slash thing--and even better than that to not explain your fandom/pairings *nods*