Mia
He's a pilot? Good call. 'Love a guy who's good with his hands. ;) Kidding, kidding. Yeah, I know what you mean. And... honey, I love you, and I hate to sound this way? But please don't use Jamie as an excuse not to go after this guy if you like him. You'll regret it later, trust me. I don't believe Jamie would want you moping around after him, if it wasn't certain he was going to show up. If- and that's a big 'if'- he shows, you'll have some thinking to do. But for now, just have fun, and live life. There's nothing wrong with that.
Oh, come on.. Okay, so you don't know the 51st century definition of cavalier, but trust me. Flirting with Jamie was... the same way I used to flirt with you. Harmless fun. Do I think you're gorgeous? Of course I do. But you had Jamie. And now this guy has you. And if there's one thing I won't do in a relationship, it's be a homewrecker.