Tam
No, she can't. That was part of my point. You want her safe, she has to learn to stand alone sometimes. That's not to say you won't be there for her, but she needs to make choices for herself too. I get the impression its rare she gets to do this sort of thing.
I'd think less of you if you hadn't said that you know. Shows you care about her. I'm not out to hurt her, contrary to popular belief I'm not a monster. I have a lot to atone for, and maybe this is a start