Don't think on that too hard. The holiday is supposed to be inspired by that historical event but it really became a holiday of its own, less about that and more about family and food. So just think of it how you want to think of it! It's very unique in the best kind of way.
[Jacen]
At least someone got some small little piece of goodness out of it. You're a good brother, Jacen. Both for wanting to protect her and restraining yourself from punching them. Jaina probably appreciates it. But we go back to you are not going to punch him. Anytime you feel like it, just count to ten. Or twenty. You might be a twenty kind of guy.
Good. For making sense, not the ramble itself.
It's not really something you should get used to because it would probably affect the mentality of being a fighter? You accept someone could defeat you, you might be well on your way to defeat. But there should still be an acknowledgment so stupidity doesn't happen.