Also, think about this. You said you don't know some of the people that think of you as family? I didn't meet Sam and Dean until about a month ago. But, as weird as it is, I've actually been trying to get to know them. You could do the same with the ones that you don't know well. And let the ones that don't know you do the same thing. I mean, if you're taking the time to try to get to know my family so well, you could probably do the same for your own.