Buffy
I don't think she is. She hasn't defended the things he or she herself did in her home. Honestly, I think she's scared of the powers. And the threats being made don't help. Like she said there were no apologies. People are being nasty if I'm honest. It's possible the boy was scared and said those things but hasn't been given a chance to apologise himself because if he tries he's shouted down or threated in a horrible way. That Kitty girl went too far for someone so new and its one of the reasons I'm wary of letting her help me teach.
No, they won't save her. But we need to give a little here too. There's a divide Buffy, not just with this, with attitudes, and it needs to be talked out or it will tear this complex down.