Jacen
Yeah, if I'm here. But what if I'm not? Not to mention, I would have killed you before, but here you are, living a reasonably decent life here on this planet. I wouldn't have thought you had that in you.
Easy isn't all its cracked up to be. You don't want to bury them so far they break, but you grow more when things are challenging - whatever they are.
It's just if you love them, then they'll have that, even if the other is a difficulty for them. That's all I was saying.