I'd say it to pretty much any sentient lifeform that asked the question you did. Afterall I'm not the one that exclaimed they were feeling left out of being sent a naked hugagram.
There is a world of difference asking someone if they'd like to see you naked, compared to actually doing it without their consent.
I got over age gaps a long time ago. You are too tightly wound to be flirted at, I get it, your loss, I'll leave you be, and waste my time on someone more fun.