Henrik
They are. I will give Katherine this much, she admits it. I can respect that. I don't like her, but I can respect her. She's had to deal with a lot and it's made her into a hard person. Elena is more like Tatia, I think. There's a selfishness ingrained in her that she doesn't admit to having even when others are being hurt around her.
But we never have to deal with Elena. Stefan knows how I feel about her, and he understands it.
Katherine will one day marry Elijah. And if nothing else, we can support him. I love him more than I dislike her.