That could be dangerous. Not for us, of course, but for the whole of Lawrence.
Yeah, you were. But you can't separate the evils committed to her family and say they're less important or terrible than the evils committed to yours just because you were dead at the time. It's like the Hatfield's and the McCoys- It's evolved from one shitty action done by one shitty person into a blood feud between the Gilberts, of which there is only one left, and the Mikaelsons, who by virtue of what they are cannot be killed.
I love you, but that excuse is wearing thin, Bekah. Kol wasn't, and isn't, an angel and I'm positive he did things in his life that warranted the ending of it, just like we all have. You're holding up the untold numbers of "his bloodline" as a reason for you to hate Elena and to illustrate how much of a monster she truly is... How many of them did you actually know and care about? How many of those individual deaths affected you personally? That number can't be more than a handful and since you've never mentioned a single name other than your brother's, you couldn't have been hit that hard by them. It's natural for his death to hit you hard, and I don't fault you at all for holding Kol's death against her, but it's a little unfair to keep waving the mass murder flag at her, especially since it wasn't just her involved in that.