Oh but I can. You know I try. I really do. And to her credit she hasn't tried to speak to me, but you can bet she's being ridiculous about why I asked that of her. And do you know she only really talks to Tom when he contacts her? I've tried to just get on with things but any time I try to make conversation. Do something? Get involved in the community. Nothing. Because she's gotten there first.
So I fail to see the point in trying. I have Tom, I have you and Damon, a few others. As for everyone else we were acquainted with? If they're willing to believe her version of the breakup then they were not friends to me in the first place.