Klaus
You're not the only one they blame. They do blame you for a lot and some of that you're definitely at fault for. But not everything. They're to blame for a lot too. I don't think you're overreacting though. I think the constant fights weren't helpful and you're a lot happier now than you've been in a while.
So then who does he stay with if we do leave the city for a long period of time if you're not trusting your siblings?