Elijah
I'm not holding you accountable. If I was holding you accountable, I'd yell at you for killing my best friend. For being the idiot who gave the bloody witches your mothers grimoire. The one with the ring for werewolves. A ring which allows them to access all of their powers even when it's not a full moon. Admittedly, your brother also helped with that. And they pretty much wiped out my guys.
But, no. I know that wasn't you. But, regardless of what you haven't done yet. She doesn't trust you. And she sure as hell doesn't want to talk to you.
So, just respect her damned wishes would you. And leave her the hell alone.