That you would have to ask her. The point I'm from, Kol had just died, Klaus was trapped in with Kol's body and we were still on the way for the cure.
I'd believe that if it hadn't been so calculated. She set a trap for Kol, she set up a distraction for me. She clearly did know about the dagger option because she made Stefan convince me to give my dagger to him. I thought it was because she was going to dagger Kol, but the truth was, the plan was to dagger me. And if killing Kol's bloodline hadn't been enough to complete Jeremy's Mark, they would have killed me for mine too.
Killed her and helped her finish transition. Kol was after that, yeah. Finn wasn't. The other attempts against the rest of us. She's entirely fair in hating Klaus, anyone who hates Klaus is probably fair on that. I love my brother, I also hate him just as much very often. I'll do anything to protect him, but he doesn't make it easy, the amount of times he makes enemies. And he did "start" it, if you want to get very high school about it, he killed Jenna, Elena's aunt. But the rest of us were in coffins with daggers in our hearts at the time. Like I said, I regret a lot of things, but that one I don't. It was the only way to stop Alaric. My bitch whore of a mother saw to that.
And I'm grateful for that, I really am, and I don't want to lose your truth. I also don't want to be the cause of marital problems.