He has to see that it wasn't really him. And you can't 'make' him. You can tell him, you can tell him a million times but until he believes it, it won't do a kriffing thing.
I couldn't stop imagining the damage it could do. And cause I imagined it, thought about it, it knew every bit of that. It feels like you're powerless and that's in a lot of ways the hardest bit. Loss of control.
I mean it could just be me, I value my control over what I do, really kind of a lot. But lose choice and what are you.