She is. She's probably the only person who can get revenge on the Marrok without his retaliating against her. She once got him to sit on a glob of peanut butter after he yelled at her or something I heard.
Back home my third should actually be my second as he is more dominant but he doesn't care about being my second and sadly a good majority of my wolves don't approve of his sexual preference but they know that he is here to stay.