See, what Loki did to you was one thing. Straight up control. You had no say in a damn bit of it. Neither did hottie mc guyliner in the movie. This guy though, its...god it sounds more messed up.
He got in his head. Deep in by all counts. Doesn't excuse it, just...don't try the your boss is evil tactic. It doesn't fly with people like that.
You should bring the boys round.
I'll cook.
By which I mean I'll order in and pretend to have cooked