Elena knows how I feel about her. She's part of my family, my best friend since the sandbox days. And I need and want her in my life. If anyone tried anything I would defend her. Which makes everything complicated, but I'll deal.
But I do see what you're saying. There's no reason to defend her here to you though because you aren'tt hurting her or saying anything bad. And no one is where I've seen it right now either. I could have missed it or been filtered against but I prefer to not live in paranoia.