Okay, I'm confused, because I know Kol threatened in that one post, but I haven't seen him threaten anything else. And maybe that's cause its filtered from me but I'm not sure what you're getting at with that. And from what I know there's a whole you stay away from me, I'll stay away from you thing. But I could be wrong about that.
I dunno. Do the people who's loved ones got hurt hate her? I wasn't around when any of that happened, so I can only go on how she acts now and what she does now. But those who had to endure all of that, its on them for how they want to treat her. Just like it is for Katherine. Does everyone hate her? No. She has friends. And I'll even admit she's trying to work on things, but I'm not ready to be all chummy with her and I don't think I should have to be. If others want to I'm not about to go up and be all you CAN'T. Its up to them.
I'm not sure why Elena can't get to know people on her own? Or why Jeremy couldn't if he came here. Because no, they wouldn't get to kill either of them because of the truce. They may hate them and want nothing to do with them but no killing will be happening. Just because the Mikaelsons don't like them doesn't mean they won't find and make their own connections here. Cause, Ruby, they're not that well liked of a family.
No, I'd do it. If it meant saving the people I love, I'd do a lot. But I know I'm a monster. I've learned that much about myself. And I haven't lived it and I don't like what happened, but I understand why Elena and Jeremy did it. And I know that if it meant saving someone they loved that my family would do and has done terrible things.
I think everyone needs to take a step back. No one needs to like everyone, just tolerate each other's presence, and let one another live their own lives.