Hal
You're not acting much like you love her. Some of the people here are happy with what they are and as much as you may not like it, you really don't get to call them idiots. That's how people turn away, Hal. They're angry and they're hurt but if you'd make an effort to try and understand, they might do the same.
She still loves you. But she's happy living life. You won't have forever to put this back together.