Alex
Okay yeah, no. I do sort of think she's too caught up in him to really be honest with herself but thats me worrying about her rather than dismissing her.
And no, that's not like Kol. If he wanted to use you, compulsion. He wouldn't play this out, its not his style.
I think you need a break from Hal, to think everything through. I mean he's never been a super douche at me or Lee, I barely know the guy, but you need to focus on you