Alex
He needs to grow up. Five hundred years as something he hates has really affected him and it's going to take time. Maybe it's something he has to do on his own.
You, however, need to be you. You wanted this, you've earned this. You should get to enjoy humanity again because you're not a judgmental prick. We deserve ice cream. And karaoke.
Take the time apart. If it's meant to be, it'll happen someday. Until then, you deserve to live life.
And for the record, he never actually apologized to me. Just quit raking me over the coals, so to speak.