You're plenty strong. You just hurt. And you're angry sometimes, and you're scared of that cause you think it'll hurt people. You thought it would hurt me.
You want her, its safest not to want her in case you lose her again.
But what's the alternative, miss your chance? Ignore her, forget her?
Maybe the seal takes her. It happens. But you're stronger than you think you are and I can help you. The Wild Power can help you. I don't think I'm gonna need to though.