Rebekah | Davina
Some of the fashions were a nightmare too. If the covens of New Orleans today are anything like the ones I used to know, backwards is putting it nicely.
If you don't want to use your magic, no one should force you. Do what you want though. Don't let anyone tell you what to do, ancestors or otherwise.
One of the things here is "fictional" characters are real. Including Lily Luna Potter and Hugo Weasley. If you wanted to spend time with any magical types. Or there's so many others, from different worlds.