Eponine
Not always. Look at all the good most of the people with money here have done. Because of people with money, there's students who can go to university, people have roofs over their heads and food in their stomachs, they're protected and safe. I'm what could be considered rich, even back home, and you don't think of me that way, do you?
Just bits? What about a solid colour and then another coloured sash? Or were you thinking of a patterned dress? Do you know who he's having as an attendant yet? The colours should coordinate with the groomsmen's, usually.