I fully admit I haven't bothered to read every comment because, well, I'm really quite pregnant with twins and their father went and got himself injured, so my patience is limited.
But Caroline is one of the few friends I have, so I feel obliged in some way to say my piece.
Which is that I think people are being unfair to you. So you're arrogant, you are. So what? Lots of people are. You can't go more than a few days without someone bragging about their skills and you're no different from any of them. Except, for some reason you get criticized for it. I don't know why.
Well, sometimes Jacen does too. But I don't think people actually realize that if we wanted to, we could be ruling this planet by the end of the week. We'd have to go completely Sith to do it, but Jacen did rule over an entire galaxy, one planet is nothing. And frankly, looking at the chaotic mess this world is actually in, we'd probably thanked for it. Ukraine, Uganda, Syria, all of that would be very much stopped if order was brought to the chaos.
I think the fact is, people are afraid of you. Oh, they'll deny it. It wouldn't surprise me if people get offended at me for saying so. They may not even realize it, fear is such a primal emotion that they don't understand it even as they're feeling it.
So if you want people to like you more, then yes, tone down the arrogance. But I think everyone here should be aware that they're basically being hypocrites because we all do it.