I am older. Older than your species. I was of Heaven. I thought that meant everything. I thought it meant the side I was on was always the right side. I was absolute and I was required to be. Not cruel but distant, effective. The top of the chain.
I was wrong. What was happening around me was wrong. My orders did not come from where I believed. They were not perfect. I had to adjust. Adjusting is hard but I have found not adjusting when your circumstances change is even harder.
You say you are eternally 20 but I know those younger with a more mature perspective. Myself I a not old for my kind though I can't hold myself up as an example, I am still trying.
The brief ones, they are His treasures. Longevity makes none of his more valuable, more worthy. It simply gives us more time to learn, to experience and to lose.
I don't see you all as the same but arrogance... acting like your natures make you superior, was the attitude some of my brothers had. It lead them to spite, to treat these ones as dispensable. They aren't and I no longer respond well to it.
Everyone here has made poor choices, mistakes, and are making them currently and will make more. None can claim perfection. You trade on a side effect and expect it's enough to get you regard. It doesn't work here just as my status as an angel brought me nothing. Nor should it.
It's not the power you have but how you present it, what you do with it.
If you saw and old man taunt a child for it's lack of experience, knowledge of he world, whose side would you be on? Both are just what they should be where they are. They are on their paths, you are on yours.
You see their complains. They are honest answers. I presume that's what you wanted.