Okay, so arrogance. Plenty of other people round here are arrogant and aren't met with the same level of hatred, though.
I have my specific interests, certain people of interest, they're the ones I'd focus on helping. Is it wrong? Is it different than what other people do, really? You'd help Alex before you'd help me, wouldn't you? Choose the people you're close to, that you care about, over those you don't?