Crowley
They are welcome to try. They always were.
I don't ask that of her. If we were to be friend we would be but she turns on me as often. I would be willing to try and I have told her this but in practice it hasn't worked. I also have done nothing to Emily.
Tact is for people who you not trust. Honesty is for those you do.
I am. A disagreement between us can be resolved without making a spectacle. Without turning people against me. I speak from care. It does not deserve to be help up as betrayal. It isn't propaganda to speak out of fondness.
You make assumptions about what I am saying. They are generalisations and nothing more.
I am not disrespecting her. Marriage does not negate his identity or his will. It does not replace his autonomy and it does not mean others have no role in his preservation.
You are not being reasonable. You have your angle. We don't agree. That doesn't make me unreasonable. This isn't about his marriage. This is about his continued existence as a man. That is what matters above all other things here. I care about his will and his person. If we preserve that all else is preserved if he chooses it.